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Monday, July 21, 2008

The Ugly Duckling

*migraine..migraine..migraine.....it's coming!*

I'm going to blog about other people.This is just base on my observations.Which may be wrong or right.

There's this girl I know.She wasn't hip,cool,pretty,popular..etc..etc..You get the picture.More like a nobody.And there's this group of people.Which is a total opposite of her.Currently,she has the chance in a lifetime to be with this group of people.Immediately,her principles change,her attitude towards others change to match with this group of people,her style change in someways but not much(maybe she couldn't afford what this group of people can afford),the way she talks more on looking down at others(which also match this group of people) and many others.

What I'm trying to point out is that females are very fragile.We tend to get jealous easily when another female has better stuffs,assets,looks prettier,attract more males...etc.Lost her true identity just because she needs to feel on par with certain people.Change her mentality,change her principles,and many more.Not totally comfortable with herself.

I've seen so many friends change because of this.Ditching the old friends which doesn't suit the new person she has become.I'm not saying that getting a new style is bad,changing your lifestyle to a healthier diet or trying to do facial or manicure,pedicure is bad...nope.It's actually good.But there's no need to change yourself,your mentality and all the good principles that you previously had to be with certain people.

Just love yourself for who you are.If someone brings a new positive thing,take it and make yourself more wonderful with one new positive input.

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